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Across borders and generations, TOFA finds shared pride on a rainy Jacksonville night

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Rain did not keep guests from arriving in barongs and Filipiniana for a night of Filipino pride. Inside the Jacksonville Center for the Performing Arts on Oct. 24, the 16th annual The Outstanding Filipino Awards unfolded through laughter, family tributes and acceptance speeches that sometimes proved difficult to contain within 30 seconds.

The celebration brought together honorees from across the United States, including the East Coast, West Coast, Hawaii and Guam, alongside recipients based in the Philippines, Canada and Switzerland. Their work spanned health care, entrepreneurship, cultural preservation, public leadership and community service.

For Philippine Honorary Consul Sharol Noblejas, however, the evening carried a deeply personal sorrow. The night she received her TOFA award was also the night her mother died. Noblejas rushed to Orlando that evening, making the recognition a bittersweet milestone amid a family loss.

Onstage, she had spoken of the people who made her community work possible, thanking her husband, Norman, her sons, friends and the Jax Filipinos board.

“This honor is not mine alone,” Noblejas said. “It belongs to everyone who has been part of my journey.”

As founder of Jax Filipinos and the Philippines’ honorary consul in Jacksonville, Noblejas was recognized for work that has helped make the local Filipino community more visible through cultural programs and civic engagement.

Her remarks reflected a theme that ran through the ceremony: Few recipients considered their achievements theirs alone.

An ambassador’s appeal and a message of hope

Former U.S. Ambassador to the Philippines Harry Thomas Jr. and his wife, Mithi Aquino Thomas, were jointly honored for their contributions to education, cultural exchange and ties between the two countries.

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Thomas used part of his acceptance remarks to recall the U.S. Embassy’s participation in host Boy Abunda’s anti-bullying campaign in the Philippines. He urged continued advocacy against bullying and for legal immigration, then introduced his wife as his hero.

Mithi Aquino Thomas spoke about her cancer journey and the resilience of Filipino women.

“Strength is not about never falling,” she said. “It is about finding the courage to rise again.”

Her message extended beyond those facing illness.

“To everyone fighting a battle that others cannot see, please never lose hope,” she said. “Your story is not over.”

The couple’s appearance brought diplomacy and personal experience together on a stage where professional accomplishments frequently gave way to stories of survival, gratitude and family.

Filipino achievement beyond U.S. borders

The geographic reach of the awards was evident in recipients whose careers have taken them far from the Philippines.

Dr. Jennifer Marie Jose, based in Manila, was recognized for her work in robotic gynecologic surgery and women’s health care. In accepting the award, she described how advances in her field could strengthen women’s confidence and improve their quality of life.

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Canada-based nursing leader Rodolfo Lastimosa Jr. reflected on leaving home with “a suitcase full of dreams” and discovering purpose through the difficulties that followed.

“To every Filipino chasing a dream, never let your beginnings define your limits,” he said. “Dream big, stay humble, and always remember where you came from.”

Switzerland-based entrepreneur Demee Mahinay Koch offered a similarly forward-looking message.

“Tonight is a reminder that all of us are capable of greatness,” she said.

Other recipients represented Filipino communities across the United States and its territories. Guam-based nurse Job Marconi Mascardo dedicated his recognition to fellow nurses who served during the COVID-19 pandemic and remembered those who died. Hawaii social worker Melvin Joseph Dizon dedicated his award to underserved communities that are often forgotten or overlooked.

Together, their remarks illustrated the reach of Filipino service — from hospitals and businesses to communities separated by oceans.

A 97-year-old honoree gets her time

One of the evening’s most memorable exchanges came when Bonifacia Orozco, introduced as 97 years old, received her award.

Recognized for a life that included raising 11 children, surviving wartime loss and helping others through her businesses and community involvement, Orozco prompted an especially tender response from Abunda.

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The host encouraged her to take her time at the microphone, setting aside the evening’s brisk pace. He reflected that his own mother would have been the same age.

“She deserves 97 hours on the podium,” Abunda said.

For a ceremony built around achievement, the moment offered a different measure of distinction: a long life of perseverance, family responsibility and care for others.

A free procedure — and an unexpected incentive

The mood shifted from tenderness to comedy when physicians Nenita and Ramon Suarez accepted their joint recognition.

The couple were honored for humanitarian work that includes providing free family-planning care through No-Scalpel Vasectomy International. During their exchange with Abunda, Nenita Suarez offered the host a free vasectomy — and an additional 1,000 Philippine pesos if he agreed.

The offer became a running joke. Abunda returned to it later, saying that despite years of interviewing presidents, senators, members of Congress and entertainers, no one had offered him a free vasectomy with an additional “talent fee.”

The playful exchange gave the evening one of its comic highlights while drawing attention to the couple’s medical outreach.

Thirty seconds, many stories

Abunda had established the acceptance-speech rule early: Each honoree would receive an award, pose for a photograph and have 30 seconds to speak.

“Short speech, big applause,” he told the recipients.

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The limit became part of the fun as honorees tried to fit years of work, lists of loved ones and heartfelt dedications into a brief turn at the microphone. Some arrived prepared; others found themselves adjusting microphones, gathering their thoughts or exchanging jokes with the host.

Beneath the humor, the speeches repeatedly returned to gratitude.

Nursing executive Pamela Windle thanked the family members, mentors and friends who had shaped her career and spoke of continuing to inspire younger nurses. Actor Arnold Reyes shared his recognition with family, colleagues and supporters. Josephine Jampayas accepted a joint award for herself and her late husband, Ismael, honoring a partnership rooted in community service.

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TOFA founder Elton Lugay framed that connection between achievement and responsibility in his welcome address.

“Excellence is most meaningful when it is joined with humility, integrity, and service,” he told the honorees.

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Keynote speaker Cristeta Comerford, the former White House executive chef, urged recipients to recognize their collective influence as leaders who build bridges and create opportunities for others.

Outside, it was a rainy Florida evening. Inside, guests dressed for celebration gathered around stories that reached from Jacksonville to communities across the United States and beyond — stories made more personal by the people who stepped forward to tell them.